Many mothers who are refuges have stated that one point in their life they have been abused by their husbands. This is besides the fact that they have been through a lot and trying to find refuge in a whole new country. Most of the women are left to take car of the kids alone when the husband decides to leave for fear of responsibility. Others are abused by their spouses who are much stressed and find I hard to adopt to another lifestyle.

Many refugee women opt o stay with their abusive spouses because of the children. They fear what will happen to their future if they do not have jobs and one to lean on. They also fear their children will be taken away by social services if they are not in a position to provide others want to raise their children in the traditional setting a family so that the children can get to know both parents and the importance of a family unit. Most of the women say they far facing community when they are single and fear the children will face stigmatism. Others will opt to stay because of traditional values. Read the rest of this entry »

When you are sexually assaulted you need to :-

• Call someone that you can trust
• Go a safe location away fro where the incident happened
• It is not wise to blame yourself. You did not wish for this to happen and you should thank God you are alive.
• You need to go to the hospital and get urgent help. Inform the doctor what really happened so they can assist you effectively
• It is your own decision if you will want to report the matter to the police
• If you want to go to the hospital, do not bathe, brush your teeth or groom you’re self. Got to the center in the condition you are in so that the medics can get the correct results
• If you want to nail the person who committed the crime, report to the police and do a medical examination. Bathing will destroy the evidence and it is wise to report to the station in the exact condition.

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How to communicate with children after a divorce- tips to keep communication lines open
After a divorce, children are the hard hit and find it very hard to come with terms that their parents have separated. Children love to grow in a family setting and wish to be close to both their parents. Divorce parents should know how to explain the situation to the children and keep communication lines open. Most of the children get stresses when their parents separate and when go unchecked, they could suffer a huge tremor or turn out to be very rebellious. Read the rest of this entry »

Many people are sexually assaulted by their spouses, parents, friend and unknown people. It is mainly common among the female sex and especially young girls. Sexual assault can happen at any time either in the morning or late in the night. If you have been sexually assaulted you need to

• Know it is not your fault
• Gather strength to move forward
• Do not wash your self
• Report the matter to the police
• Go to the hospital and have the doctors check you
• Call a close friend to assist you

You need to get out of the place the incident occurred ! Gather courage and confidence to speak out what happened – Not let fear overcome you ; Be strong even though it is a trying moment in life. Read the rest of this entry »

Idaho Falls Rescue Mission gives vital services, basic help, and expectation to the destitute men to be in the city of Refuge and the women who have kids’ and are also homeless are given shelter at Ruth House. The key aim is to give urgent refuge, food, cloths and basic essentials. Idaho Falls Rescue offers case administration for all those willing to stay at our shelters. Some of the programs are disability needs, referrals to get good employment, medical needs and life counseling. The residents living in these homes have the perfect chance to change their lives when they enroll in these programs. There is also the Christian discipleship program that is available on request.

Temporary Track
Transients are permitted to live for a period of one week only. They are given and supplied the basic and essential services and have the perfect chance to request about supplementary tracks through the entry consultation with our Case Manager who is in charge of this department. Read the rest of this entry »

If couples would tend to act more closely to each other, the cases of divorce would gradually reduce. The couple needs to be more at ease, motivate each other, communicate and listen to each other. This will make them to be able to set aside their differences and solve the issue that they have at the moment. They also need o overcome their insecurities and live without fear that the other partner is cheating o issues pertaining their relationship. One needs to accept the fact of living without insecure and that is when they can be able to live well with other people in the society. Read the rest of this entry »