If you are one of the victims of abuse either physical, emotional or sexual abuse, you need to inform your family and friends or go for professional assistance. Many people do not want to accept the fact that they are being abused and end up staying with the person who is abusing them. There are care and help line numbers that one can call and get assistance. They are available all through the day and night.

Signs to look out for to know that you are in an abusive relationship
There are some signs that you need to watch out for and they will help you determine if you are in an abusive relationship or not.

• The partner keeps on speaking badly about the people who you associate with in a bid to stop you from communicating with them. Most of the sentiments do not have base and are mostly lies.
• The person usually has a bad temper when you are around or whenever they set eyes on you.
• They always see mistakes in you and other people and they find themselves to be very perfect.
• They put you on the line and you always have to compete for their time and for his attention
• Does not have the time in the world to talk about their feelings and ignores to discuss once you bring up the subject
• Keeps on complaining about the way you dress, eat and spend your own money. They dictate what you will eat and how you will wear and what will please them the most.
• They only are interested in sex and do not want to discuss about love.
• They do really scary and annoying things like driving a vehicle very fast, using the knife to bang the tables and threaten all the time
• There is a high trend shows that majority of them are addicted to horror movies and music ad will love to associate with this characters.
• They always accuse you of doing things like lying stealing and in the actual sense, the accusation does not exist
• Want to know where you are all the time and keep track of all you are doing
• If you are away with family and friends, they keep on calling to see what you are doing and end up getting jealous
• Constantly makes fun of you inform of family and rinds and does not apologize for it
• They find themselves to be perfect and do not stand to be corrected and they think they never make mistakes
• When they make mistakes, they blame you and try to find every reason to associate you with the mistake they have done
• They do not apologize nor take responsibility fort their actions everything
• To them no is not a answer and should not be used by anyone apart from them

In reality, they are very insecure but they act as if they know :-

• They threaten to harm you, harm themselves or commit suicide when you say you want to let go of the relationship
• They have a way of twisting the truth and you will land to be on the wrong side
• They keep on saying they you do not love them and if you loved them, they would not behave the way they do
• Calls you abusive names even in front of children and family
• If you have a friend of the opposite sex, they are jealous and accuse you of cheating even if it is just a work partner